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In life there are ups and downs. Being happy is not always essential. In fact I believe it isn't essential and given a hundred percent of the time for anybody - being happy Is a thing one needs to learn in life and which is an individual learning process for everybody.
This is no excuse though, for allowing despair and unhappiness to enter your life. You, the human being in your body, are responsible for being a happy person and ultimately, besides great advice and encouragement and most of all inspiration of other people, there is nobody - really nobody - who can help you out of your own misery.
You are the only person which can make yourself happy and fulfilled. As help is allowed though, and of course learning from others who have been through this journey before you, here is advice on how to be really happy with yourself.
First of all - It is a journey and you need to accept it. You need to accept the ups and downs of life, and you need to work with them. Ups are a good sign - you did something right. Or you just accepted life for the moment and had moments of bliss accepting life for what it is.
In the bad moments, there will be hidden your lessons of life. You are the one who needs to see the lesson and the good in the dark moment though. You could literally spend decades wasting your time with self pity and self hate, if you do not take responsibility for yourself and see the good in the bad.
There are some sign posts you will need to pass in order to complete the journey of happiness. You will need to stop caring what other people think and could eventually think about you as you will need to live your own life in complete fulfillment.
Then one last thing: You will need to create your own happiness. Only you yourself will know what fulfills you most in life, what makes you the most happiest. You are the one responsible who will have to create the life that makes him happy.
This can be a difficult task but it is a glorious one. When you truly find centeredness and happiness people will look up to you and you will be a great source of guidance. A reason to be proud with yourself and life - and a reason to be happy.
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